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IANC, there is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely, and frankly, the latter will cause 'unhappy', while the former can often cause 'relief'. Just look at the work you do; you are obviously quite capable and effective. I'll bet yo
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IANC, I agree with Bart. From what you say, your marriage is essentially bankrupt, and your attempts to resurrect it are more likely to lead to further harm than good. It's not even a moral question any more, just a matter of survival. A marriage
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No I don't view that as crossing the line. as a matter of fact, I greatly and deeply appreciated the effort. it means so much. thank you. wish you could have found her I am coming to realize just how severely I depend on her for EVERYTHING!
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Originally Posted By: SerenityActually, it has nothing to do with sex. I personally think women want sex just as much as men, thus making the point mute.Somehow I don't recall many men complaining that women treat them purely as sex objects, so there
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I'm sorry for the loss of your cat. I cried my eyes out when my nearly four-year old baby, Arnold, died. I balled my eyes out. Same with Edgar (another guinea pig, who died of a cold shortly after his second birthday). I'd take Bart's suggestion and
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IANC, you need to use this emotional time for 'good'. THIS is exactly one of those times in which you need to use your emotional and therefor suggestible state to say positive things about yourself, over and over and over again. Something simple is b
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I truly don't know what to say or suggest that I haven't mentioned before. Her statement seems to me to be a pure and simple admission of entrapment by fatherhood. Once you see there is no chance, you need to make a decision and start to improve your
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sorry about necroposting but this is the same exact thoughts, but with a different pet. when I came home from work this morning the babysitter said that Pugsley(my second cat, a beautiful long hair calico) was wheezing; i said she always does becaus
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I hit an all time new low in depression today. I mean she buried the knife up to the pommel (bottom of handle) into my heart. she told me that she hasn't loved me since I betrayed her. these past 10 years have been a lie, to herself and me. she didn'
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well I paid for it today and she said she can have it out in less than 2 weeks. its good because I think with all of the turmoil I'm in I could use whatever aid possible for comfort or assurance (relaxation).
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Parents of AS child: Advice from other parents & adult aspies.
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good for you, dont take no for an answer. stand up for her and her rights. she is entitled to certain rights and accomodations when needed. hopefully she wont need the IEP but it always better to have and not need than need and not have.
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Thank you, Ive got some good info on places her in Cali that I have to do some homework on. From what I'm hearing its i bit of a struggle.
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okay that makes sense. thank you for the clarification. it is made to seem like I could have controlled things better back then. yeah maybe IF I had been diagnosed as asperger way back in my youth. nowadays, yes maybe I can control somethings bet
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Thank you I will be working on all that I can get my hands on!! Passive just went out the window.
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Mom4Max could give you the most help and assistance. our friend v-dog, who seems to be taking a hiatus, is an awesome legal resource, especially Ca laws and he's not a lawyer. that guy seems to know everything about anything. he's like wikepedia.
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you can either post it here on the board and we can respond to you or you can send a private message to me directly I will return it as soon as possible I promise. it is rather easy to send a private message. ask away, most of us here love to help
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hello and welcome to the board my fellow nutmeger. it sounds like you did a down right fine job raising David. you should be proud of him and yourself. I hope he appreciates everything you've done for him. he shouldn't view aspergers as a disabil
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A little help please, Im not for sure if I need to reply directly to you or just on the board I would like to soak up as much info as I can. thanks
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Very interesting, I cant even get them to help my 9 yr.old(3rd grader who should be in 4th but held her back) in reading even though she is reading at 2nd grade 3rd month grade level. After they tested her by reading most of it to her. There outcome
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Actually, it has nothing to do with sex. I personally think women want sex just as much as men, thus making the point mute. I'm just happy that he can even pinpoint the month of my birthday because it means he took the time to memorize some little t
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Linda is Mom4Max and has gone through this with her son, in California too.
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I don't know who Linda is yet, but will be glad to hear any suggestions.
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Ah, now I'm only too eager to learn what Linda has to add to this discussion.
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We live in Ca. The school also told me they have to do there own evaluation which they require, so I'm waiting for a date to meet with "all the people".
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Last thing first: we can get depressed by anything, but we don't really know anything is wrong. It is when we are rejected socially when trying to interact, and we cannot understand what it is that causes the problem that we may start to get depresse
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