I was a very good detective a few years ago. Thru computer logs, cell phone bills, bank statements and adding 2 + 2, I was not only able to catch my husband cheating on me with women he met on the internet and at local bars, I showed him a list I had made with every single woman's name, address, and phone number. I knew dates when he had spent time with these women (he traveled alot for his job) and where they spent the time. He was smart not to use a credit card, but *so* dumb to use ATM machines to get money. I guess since I was the one who took care of the checkbook and finances he had no idea that ATM withdrawals show up on bank statements with locations.
How did I use this information? Only to show him that *this* was the reason I had made an appointment with an attorney and was filing for divorce. I never bothered any of the women. Not even the one he was "dating" locally. Good detective / bad stalker. Because I had no desire to be one.
Now how's that for "revealing" something about myself?? LOL
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~Linda~
"The way I see it, if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain" - Parton